Stalking Info Brochure

Information About Stalking

Developed by Kansas Coalition Against Sexual and Domestic Violence

What is Stalking?

Stalking can be defined in several ways: by its general meaning; by the criminal statute; and by the Protection from Stalking Act.

Generally, stalking is thought of as a pattern of harassing, threatening, or intimidating conduct that makes another fear for her/his safety. It does not necessarily involve physical contact but can escalate to such behavior. Stalkers can be strangers, acquaintances, friends, family members, or intimate partners.

In Kansas, as in most other states, stalking is a crime. Criminal stalking is engaging in "a course of conduct targeted at a specific person which would cause a reasonable person to fear for such person's safety or the safety of a member of such person's immediate family and the targeted person is actually placed in such fear." K.S.A. 21-3438.

"Stalking" is defined differently for purposes of the Kansas Protection from Stalking Act. Under this Act, "stalking" is the "intentional harassment of another person that places the other person in reasonable fear for that person's safety." K.S.A. 60-31a01 et seq.

For more information on stalking laws in Kansas or for legal advice, you should seek the assistance of an advocate or attorney.

Activities NOT Considered Stalking

Some activities that may seem to fit this description may actually be constitutionally protected behavior, and are not subject to the stalking laws, such as:

picketing or demonstrations
private detective work
law enforcement duties
activities with a legitimate purpose

While this all may sound complicated, the important thing to keep in mind is this: If you believe someone is stalking you, you should think about seeking help. You could be in physical danger. There are several things you can do to try to increase your safety, some of which will be discussed in this brochure.

How Common Is Stalking?

No one knows just how common stalking is, as there has been little data collected by law enforcement officials. In the United States, it is estimated that over 1 million women and 370,000 men will be stalked each year.

Stalking has existed for a long time but has only recently been labeled as a separate and distinct behavior; different from harassment or domestic violence, for example.

Stalking can be dangerous. Twenty-two percent of all stalkers sexually assault their victims. Some stalkers have killed or seriously wounded their victims.

Stalkers and their victims can be of any age, race, ethnicity, nationality, religion, or gender. However, some research has shown much higher incidents of Native American women being stalked.

The majority of stalkers are men, and most of them stalk women. Even men are more likely to be stalked by men than by women.

Stalking can also be done by electronic means, such as through email, voice mail, and text messages. Stalkers have also been known to post things about their victim on the internet, subjecting the victim to a broad range of different types of harassment. Stalking through the use of technology is increasingly common.

Stalking of a particular victim can last for short periods of time or can continue for many years.

What Can You Do If You Are Being Stalked?

There are no easy answers to this question. First and foremost, you should think about your safety. Here are some other things to consider:

Report the stalking to your local law enforcement agency. While officers may not have enough evidence to arrest the stalker, it is important to develop this "official" record of the stalking behavior. If a law enforcement report is made, the information may become public.
Some stalkers believe there are hidden messages within conversations they have with their victims that encourage them to continue the stalking. Some experts suggest that if your stalker is a former intimate partner or someone who believes you want to be in a relationship, you must be clear and firm early on about wanting to end the relationship. The longer the relationship goes on, the harder it is for the stalker to get the message that you are not interested.
If the stalking has continued for a long time, some believe it is best for the victim to cease all communication with the stalker. Instead, let the "system" communicate with him through a law enforcement officer, probation officer, or through a protection order.
A protection from stalking order may or may not be effective in ending the stalking. These orders may be most effective if issued when the stalking behavior first begins. They also appear to be most effective in communities where violations of the order are taken very seriously by law enforcement, prosecutors, and judges. If these situations do not apply to you, you may want to consider whether a protection order will help or hurt your situation. Call your local domestic violence/sexual assault program in Kansas (see list) for further information and for a brochure explaining how to get a protection from stalking order.
In some situations, further contact between the victim and the stalker, tends to encourage the stalker. Therefore, if you can, try to avoid the following:
- mediation
- joint therapy
- shared custody
- face-to-face child exchanges
- protection orders (which will require a face-to-face hearing)
Keep a log of all stalking behaviors, including the following (see Incident Log):
- date of incident
- times and places the incidents occurred
- description of stalking behavior
- witnesses to the incident
If you believe you may be in imminent danger, develop a safety plan, taking into consideration the following:
- critical phone numbers, such as law enforcement, friends, domestic violence or sexual assault programs
- critical phone numbers and contact information for other important people or services you may need after reaching a safe location, such as neighbors, attorneys, prosecutors, medical care, child care, or pet care
- keep a reserve of necessities in case you have to leave your home quickly, such as a suitcase in the trunk of your car or at a friend's house; include money, medication, toys or items important to the children
- consider having important documents such as passports, immigration documents, birth certificates, and social security numbers readily accessible
- alert people who may be part of your safety plan, such as law enforcement, employers, family, friends, neighbors, or security personnel
Consider whether any of the following measures would help decrease or prevent some of the dangers connected to stalking:
- installing solid core doors with dead bolts
- changing locks, securing all spare keys
- installing outside lighting
- trimming bushes and vegetation around your residence
- identifying locations that may be safe for you, such as police stations, residences of family/friends, local churches, or other public places
- getting an unlisted number or, if you have financial means, using a "dummy" answering machine connected to your published phone line. The private or unlisted number can be reserved for close friends or family and the stalker may not realize you have another line
- varying travel routes and other routines
- limiting time walking or jogging alone
- informing a trusted neighbor about the situation and, if possible, giving them a description or a photo of the stalker, asking them to call law enforcement if they see anything unusual
Sexual assault and domestic violence programs may be able to provide you with additional help and information (see list). The Stalking Resource Center can also provide you with information on stalking. The web address is www.ncvc.org/src/ or you may call 1-800-FYI-CALL (394-2255).

If you are in danger, call 911.

INCIDENT LOG

Use this log to keep a record of stalking incidents.

Date:_____________________________
Time:_____________________________
Place:____________________________________________________________________________________________
Witnesses:________________________________________________________________________________________
Description:_______________________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________________________________

Important Phone Numbers

Crisis Hotline
Law Enforcement
Prosecutor
Prosecutor Address
Case #
Friend
Neighbor
Day Care
Emergency Healthcare

KANSAS SEXUAL and DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HELPLINE NUMBERS

This table lists the Kansas sexual and domestic violence programs alphabetically by city, services provided, program names and their HOTLINE phone numbers.

CITY	SERVICES	KCSDV MEMBER PROGRAM	CRISIS HOTLINE NUMBER
1. Atchison	DV/SA	DoVES	800-367-7075 or 913-367-0363
2. Dodge City	DV/SA	Crisis Center of Dodge City	620-225-6510
3. El Dorado	DV/SA	Family Life Center of Butler County	316-321-7104 or 800-870-6967
4. Emporia	DV/SA	SOS, Inc.	800-825-1295 or 620-342-1870
5. Garden City	DV/SA	Family Crisis Services	620-275-5911
6. Great Bend	DV/SA	Family Crisis Center	620-792-1885 or 866-792-1885
7. Hays	DV/SA	Northwest Kansas Domestic and Sexual Violence Services	800-794-4624 or 785-625-3055
8. Hutchinson	DV/SA	Sexual Assault/Domestic Violence Center	800-701-3630 or 620-663-2522
9. Iola	DV/SA	Hope Unlimited	620-365-7566
10. Kansas City, KS	DV	El Centro, Inc. ¡Si Se Puede!	913-281-1186
11. Kansas City, KS	DV	Friends of Yates Joyce Williams Center	913-321-0951
12. Kansas City, MO	DV/SA	KCAVP	816-561-0550
13. Kansas City, MO	SA	MOCSA	816-531-0233
14. Lawrence	SA	GaDuGi Safe Center	785-841-2345
15. Lawrence	DV	Women's Transitional Care Services	800-770-3030 or 785-843-3333
16. Leavenworth	DV/SA	Alliance Against Family Violence	800-644-1441 or 913-682-9131
17. Liberal	DV/SA	Liberal Area Rape Crisis and DV Services	620-624-8818
18. Manhattan	DV/SA	The Crisis Center, Inc.	800-727-2785 or 785-539-2785
19. Mayetta	DV/SA	Prairie Band Potawatomi Family Violence Prevention Program	866-966-0173 or 785-966-0173
20. Newton	DV/SA	Harvey County DV/SA Task Force	800-487-0510 or 316-283-0350
21. Overland Park	DV/SA	Safehome	888-432-9300 or 913-262-2868
22. Pittsburg	DV/SA	Crisis Resource Center of Southeast Kansas, Inc.	800-794-9148 or 620-231-8251
23. Salina	DV/SA	Domestic Violence Assoc. of Central Kansas	800-874-1499 or 785-827-5862
24. Topeka	DV/SA	YWCA Battered Women Task Force	888-822-2983 or 785-354-7927
25. Ulysses	DV/SA	DoVES of Grant County	620-356-2608
26. Wichita	DV	Catholic Charities Harbor House	316-263-6000
27. Wichita	DV	StepStone	316-265-1611
28. Wichita	SA	Wichita Area Sexual Assault Center	316-263-3002
29. Wichita	DV	YWCA Women's Crisis Center	316-267-7233
30. Winfield	DV/SA	Safe Homes, Inc.	800-794-7672 or 620-221-4357

This grant project is funded or partially funded by the Federal Victims of Crime Act awarded by the Federal Office for Victims of Crime, Office of Justice Programs of the U.S. Department of Justice as administered by Kathleen Sebelius, Governor of Kansas. The opinions, findings and conclusions, or recommendations expressed in this publication, program, or exhibition are those of the author(s) and do not necessarily reflect the views of the Office of the Governor or the U.S. Department of Justice.

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